Yes you heard it here folks! Stephen Christopher O'Haver
and Ja'Net Michelé Walker (Mystic Keeper of Dreams) have finally gotten married! Our love story is one of those Internet romances mixed with real life meetings.
We first met each other through Yahoo's Personals around March 28, 1998. I was in college in South Carolina while he was in my home state of Georgia. We met face to face April 6, 1998 when I was home on winter break. We've been going stronger since then. He proposed to me November 27, 1998, the day before Thanksgiving. Of course I said YES! We are talked about having a New Year's Eve/Day wedding, but instead decided to do it February 4, 2000. *smiles*
A Prayer for Couples
Please make of our relationship a
great and holy adventure.
May our joining be a sacred space.
May the two of find rest here, a haven for our souls.
Remove from us any temptation to judge
or to direct one another.
We surrender to You our conflicts and our burdens.
We know You are our Answer and our rock.
Help us not to forget.
Bring us together in heart and mind as
well as body.
Remove from us the temptation to criticize or be
May we not be tempted by fantasies and projections,
but guide us in the ways of holiness.
Save us from darkness.
May this relationship be a burst of
May it be a fount of love and wisdom for us,
for our family, for our community, for our world.
May this bond be a channel for Your
love and healing,
a vehicle of Your grace and power.
As lessons come and challenges grow,
let us not be tempted to forsake each other.
Let us always remember that in each other we have
the most beautiful woman, the most beautiful man,
the strongest one, the sacred one in whose arms we
May we remain young in this
May we grow wise in this relationship.
Bring us what You desire for us,
And show us how You would have us be.
Thank you, dear God,
You who are the cement between us.
Thank You for this love.
A Wedding! |
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