This is where
it really gets to be about instinct and intuition. In my opinion the basis
of Attachment Parenting is that we recognize each child as an individual
and therefore we recognize that she will have her own timelines
and schedules. I personally think that we as parents tend to rush our babies
through the phases of development. We potty train when WE feel a child
should be on the potty, versus when she is ready.
Babys give us
cues. When a baby is ready for solids she will make chewing motions with
her mouth, grab at an adults food etc. When a baby is ready to be weaned
from the breast she will reach for a cup. When a baby is ready for the
potty she will take down her diaper and pee on the bathroom floor (! my
older daughter did that ! lol). Every child gives cues as to what she is
ready to try next.
I believe the
AP philosophy about responding to cues is one of getting away from schedules,
calendars and clocks and concentrating on who YOUR baby is and what she
needs from you.