Somehow I found my way to widownet in January of 1996. I found that I was not alone in my journey toward a new life without my husband. There are countless others on this same road. There are caring compassionate people out there in cyberland, willing and eager to help ease the pain. I stopped in to widownet and stayed for a long time trying to help those so new to this pain we share and help them get started down that long lonely road we call grief. Together we move ahead toward a new life, different from the old, but none the less good.......There is a chat room there that is still going altho I don't know anyone anymore but it is a good place to go and chat and maybe some one there can help those that need help to get throught the pain.