Handfastings - Pagan Weddings

My Love is like a red, red rose,
that's newly sprung in June.
My love is like a melody
that's sweety played in tune.
- Robert Burns

A handfasting is the name for a pagan wedding. On this page, I will provide some information about Handfastings. If you had a handfasting and made a page about it, please let me know and I will review and if I like it, I will link to it here. Blessed Be.

Handfasting is so called because the priest/ess who "married" the old Celtic couples literally bound their hands together for the duration of the ritual. It is also the origin of the phrase giving one's "hand in marriage"1

Couples were not bound for life as they are today, but rather for a duration of time chosen by them. A nine-year handfasting is traditional, however, other common duration by Celtic Pagans for this Union are:

Unfortunately, modern law has made legal Handfastings almost impossible to obtain unless one commits for life at the onset. Because of this legal quirk, many Pagans have ceased to care about the legality of their union and have opted to he Handfasted only by the tenets of their path, united by a priest/ess of by themselves.2

Most Handfastings include the following:

All Handfastings are different as each form of Paganism has their own way of doing it. For ceremonies and vows from Eclectic to Druidic to Heathen to Norse, go to Witches Wed. The link is below. You can customize your handfasting just as any Christian or Buddhist would make their ceremonies to their liking. Feel free to take anything out or add anything that you would like into the ceremony.

Handfasting Links at the Wiccan Way

Ritual 1
Ritual 2
History of Handfasting


Have questions about Handfastings? Want some ideas? Need some help planning the ceremony? Need to talk to someone who has been through it? Send a mail to Lady-Star at ls_love@yahoo.com

Related Links

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Links to Actual Handfastings

Jean and Norm
Earthwolf and Skye's Handfasting

Links to Other Handfasting Pages

Life Rites - Pagan Weddings
Pagan Handfasting for General Use
Selena's Guide to Planning Pagan Weddings
Handfasting Traditions
Rites of Passage Webring
The Medieval and Renaissance Wedding Site
Handfasting (example of ceremony)
Handfasting Ritual
Handfasting Info
Pagan Wiccan About.com: Handfastings
Magick Whispers: Handfastings

Handfasting Articles of Interest

Brides and Broomsticks: Tips for Pagan Weddings


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1 - McCoy, Edain. Celtic Myth and Magick. 104

2 - McCoy, Edain. Celtic Myth and Magick. 105

3 - Compiled with the help of: Witches Wed. http://www.thetask.com/thresholds/Handfastings/index.htm

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