The Pregnancy and Infant Loss Center is a wonderful resource, especially if you live in the Minneapolis/St. Paul area. Even if you don't, I recommend calling them, they have contact information for other areas and they are wonderful people. When I walked in, a woman took one look at me, got up and came around her desk and hugged me while I began to cry. It was wonderful talking to them.
I couldn't find a website for them but here is their address and phone number.
PREGNANCY AND INFANT LOSS CENTER
1421 East Wayzata Blvd #70
Wayzata, MN 55391
Phone: (952) 473-9372
Purpose:
To offer support, resources, and education on miscarriage, stillbirth, and newborn death. Established in 1983. Literature, keepsake items, and sympathy cards available. Non-profit.
This March of Dimes page has information about molar pregnancy and grieving. Click here for their other molar pregnancy information page.
This Paternity Angel page deals with the differences in grieving for men and women. They also have links to pages with good molar pregnancy information.
Wow. I shouldn't reinvent the wheel when this page by Kendra Inman is readily available. She has put together tons of information and support groups. It's worth the click.