|"B&D" (Bondage & Discipline), "D&S" (Dominance & Submission), and "S&M" (sadomasochism). "BDSM" refers to any or all of these things, and a lot of stuff besides. BDSM is one of several overall names given to a collection of activities that involve bondage, spanking, domination. That are done in a safe, consensual, non-abusive manner and in an erotic context. BDSM is a form of erotic play that involves significant physical and emotional risks, And thus requires instruction and a reasonable amount of knowledge in order to do so with reasonable safety.
The whole key is the term "safe,sane and consensual" Above all else this is a most important practice when sceneing or playing with others. It all boils down to common sense. Always be respectful of person you are sceneing with whether someone you have played with before or someone new. Always work out any set limits and all expectations of what is to occur before hand. Know your partners limits is very important, and always use a safe word known by both the Dom/me and sub/slave ahead of time.
Sometimes when in an intense scene is hard for the sub/slave to use thier safeword although they should!!! So is the Dom/mes responsibility to check on thier sub/slave from time to time during play to ensure they are ok and able to continue.
It is always very useful to take all precautions as you never know what will happen. Always keep a first aid kit handy in case of any injuires and always good to know CPR especially for T/those who wish to engage in any form of suffocation or strangulation play!! (wich I dont reccoment at all!!!) But you know there are some that do. I will also include a list of some helpful hints for BDSM play that may be of use as well as some BDSM Terms will be listed below. I think that this BDSM page was most neccessary to include as so many have NO clue when it comes to safe play especially the novice Dom/mes and sub/slaves. Not knowing all the precautions that should be taken or even the experienced may sometimes overlook a thing or two here and there.
I have studied and researched on all the information for this topic to the best of my ability. I do hope this page will be useful and of help to T/those of Y/you that come across it. Below is a list of general precautions that Y/you may wish to look over and take seriously as well as a list of BDM terms. With that said Blessed Be on Y/your journey into the lifestlye and most Darkest Desires to E/each of Y/you :)
BDSM Precautions and Terms
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