Area: Newsgroup: alt.med.fibromyalgia
From: Jesse Kaysen
Subj: Dr Mgmt Technique
Darlene, Linda, all,
I have had my share of horrible doctors, neurologists, dermatologists, every kind of nasty-ologist. They have lied, insulted, and one even assaulted me.
4 things that have helped me find more useful medical care:
I hire the doctor. I am the customer. If the dr. tries to control the situation, I walk out the door.
To find my current (groovy) dr., I called around for Internists at my HMO. I scheduled a first visit that was a "compatibility interview"--one hour long! I laid out what my bad experiences had been; the qualities I was seeking in a doc; various "lifestyle" issues I had been criticized for in the past. Asked him how he felt. Asked him how he handled "unknown origin" type stuff; what he thought of AIYH-type (All In Your Head) answers. In this case, I got the answers I wanted, so I hired him.
I always take my lovely SO along to remember things. We write and discuss what's important for this appointment beforehand. I make 3 copies -- two for us, one for the doctor and my chart. The doc loves it. He gets an "agenda" for the visit, I never leave with questions unanswered.
You know all about this one already, that's why you're on the list. But seriously, doctors really do have a code of silence (in the U.S., it's part of the AMA's rules), so I realize that I can't get sympathy about mis-handling from even the best doctor. Complain to your provincial/state med society! Write a letter to the doc saying why you are angry! Copy everything you write and keep sending! It will help the next person.
Hope this helps.
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