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A List of 'old' Yahoo BDSM Groups

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Groups A

  • A BDSM Connection - This list was created for the exploration, education, & sexual freedom of adult eroticism.
  • A Central Kansas Dom Sub Group - Our group is based out of Hutchinson Kansas and is solely for membership of Male Dominants and female submissives.
  • A North Florida BDSM - A mailing list for anyone curious about, living, seeking friends in, or seeking advice about the bdsm lifestyle in the North Florida Area.
  • A So Cent KY Ds list - Those who join this list, 'should' live within 100 miles of the following KY counties: Adair, Barren, Casey, Clinton, Green, Marion, Metcalfe, Pulaski, Russell and Taylor.
  • Absolute TPE - This list is for the discussion of absolute total power exchange lifestyle situations. Masters/Mistresses, Dom/mes, Femsuprems, fem/male subs/slaves are all welcome to join and discuss these real life issues.
  • Action Seattle - If you are a single, married, straight, gay, lesbain, bi... vanilla, kinky, swinger, D/s - BDSM... whatever your lifestyle, wants, needs and desires use this list to find others like yourself for short and long term relationships.
  • Adrian Hunter list - Mailing list for bdsm authors Adrian Hunter and Chelsea Shepard to receive announcements of new stories and site updates
  • Adult Personals Vegas - We especially welcome those from alternative lifestyles: BDSM, lesbians, bi-sexuals, gay, transgender,swingers, or involved in any fetishes.
  • Ageplay personals - This is a personals only mailing list for ADULTS interested in finding other ADULT ageplay partners. Editors note: Ageplay is a form of roleplay involving ADULT partners ONLY
  • AL Spank - Calling all female spankers in Alabama, or the surrounding states.
  • Alabama BDSM - Welcome to my group.feel free to meet and socialize with people of like minds here in Alabama and hopefully it will help you to meet the person or persons you wish to meet
  • Alabama CD - For Alabama, NW Florida, Mississippi crossdressers, transvestites, transexuals, and anyone who appreciates this activity/lifestyle.
  • Alaska BDSM - AlaskaBDSM is a discussion list for kinky BDSMers in Alaska.
  • Alaska BDSM Forum - This group will be used for connecting with others, sharing ideas, stories and anything else that comes to mind.
  • Alaska BDSM Personals - This is a place for those unattached Doms/Dommes and subs to meet and exchange information for the purpose of friendship, education and possible relationships; both long and short term.
  • Alberta BDSM - A list to promote the BDSM lifestyle in Alberta, Canada
  • Alternative Expressions - Alternative Expressions is a real time BDSM Organization in Lancaster County Pennsylvania.
  • Amsterdam Gay BDSM (Dutch) - Deze lijst is speciaal bedoeld voor homosexuele mannen die in of nabij Amsterdam wonen en zijn geïnteresseerd in BDSM.
  • Anaheim BDSM tutor - Private or public questions and training in BDSM from the BDSM Angels
  • Anchor chat - This community is a private email server for the local Tidewater Virginia community.. serving the TIED, and Anchor Groups.
  • Ann Arbor BDSM - If you want to attend a play party, set up a play party, or just hang out with friends around Ann Arbor and the Washanaw County area of Michigan, we are a community for you to look into.
  • APEX Alaska - This list is primarly for members of a BDSM social group that meets in Anchorage, AK.
  • APEX Lafayette - Join us if you are in Lake Charles, Alexandria, Lafayette, Baton Rouge, New Orleans and points in between
  • Arab female domination - Just for arabs, who adore females feet & shoes ... and hoping to find there dream mistress
  • Arab Leather Men - This group is for Arab Leather men and the men who worship them to meet, chat, hook-up, swap photos, organize local parties and orgies and find out more about the Leather community.
  • Argentina Spanking (Spanish) - Lista para aquellos/as interesados/as en la práctica del spanking que vivan en la Argentina.
  • Arizona BDSM - List open to those over 21 who live or frequent AZ and are part of the BDSM lifestyle or are interested in same.
  • Arkansas BDSM
  • Arkansas dungeon - This list started out to be for Dommes and male subs, but my Master has instructed me that he would like for it to be a list for all in the central Arkansas area interested in BDSM.
  • ArkLaTex - A collective group of persons interested in BDSM from the ArkLaTex - Arkansas region.
  • Atlanta BDSM Personals - The purpose of this List Serv is to provide a means of letting compatible people in the BDSM Atlanta or Georgia in general community meet one another online.
  • Atlanta Boys Of Leather - The Atlanta boys of leather is a social, support, educational and community service group of self identified leather boys.
  • Atlanta Lifestyle Group - This list is used to keep members of "Atlanta Lifestyle Group" informed of upcoming meetings, educational presentations and parties.
  • Auckland BDSM - A means of communicating with people in the Auckland, New Zealand area who are interested in exploring and sharing thoughts relating to BDSM.
  • Auction Sales BDSM - For sellers and buyers of BDSM, gay and lesbian bondage items through internet auctions
  • Augusta Ga Lifestyle - This list was created to help promote alternative fetish lifestyles in the Augusta GA area.
  • Aussie MM spanking - This list is for adult men (18+) in Australia who are interested in male/male spanking, corporal punishment and discipline.
  • Aussie Spanking - This list is especially for Australian - Brisbane especially - who share a fascination with spanking.
  • Australia Under 30's BDSM
  • Australian BDSM Cages - Australian cage dwellers, cage curious, slaves and submissives who secretly long to hear the clank of a closing door, to feel the sensory deprivation of a blindfold, the cage accessories giving delicious sensations of ultimate bondage: metal butt plugs, manacles, hand-cuffs, collars, chains.



Groups B

  • b2g Midlands (UK) BDSM Community - Bound Together (b2g) is a society created to foster a sense of community for people interested in power exchange (or new to BDSM) in and around the Midlands (UK).
  • b2g Announcement list - Announcement group for b2g, a BDSM group in and around the Midlands
  • Ballet Boots and Bondage - Damsel in Balletboots and Bondage
  • Balt DC BDSM - The BaltDC mailing list is for adults interested in bondage and discipline, dominance and submission, and other alternative lifestyles.
  • Baltimore at Ease - This group is for folks in the Baltimore/DC area who support Baltimore AT EASE and it's educational and political advocacy mission.
  • Baltimore BDSM - This list is for people 21 and over of all sexes, races, and genders to meet, exchange ideas, interests, and experiences, start online or real life relationships involving BDSM the greater Baltimore area, including DC and the central Maryland region.
  • Baltimore DC BDSM - The BaltDC mailing list is for adults interested in bondage and discipline, dominance and submission, and other alternative lifestyles.
  • Bay Area Adult Role Play - Share your fantasy with others in the SF Bay Area.
  • Bay Area BDSM matching - This list is to find him/her/it or be found.
  • BBW femsubs - A discussion list for BBW female submissives where we can share our concerns, joys, sorrows.
  • BDSM 4 All - This list is for all aspects of bdsm.
  • BDSM 4 PWD - A group focusing on the needs of disabled people and their partners interested in BDSM.
  • BDSM Alabama - A discussion/announcements list for BDSM lifestylers and interested parties in and around Alabama.
  • BDSM Alaska - For those in Alaska looking to meet and talk with about the lifestyle.
  • BDSM AnfaengerInnen (German) - Diese Liste ist nicht festgelegt auf männliche Doms und weibliche Subs; sondern für alle gedacht, die sich in diesem, im deutschsprachigen Raum noch so heiklen Thema mal ausprechen möchten . Speziell für AnfängerInnen geeignet.
  • BDSM Asian Mistress - A place for Asian Mistresses to exchange ideas on how they treat their subs/slaves.
  • BDSM Atlanta - This list is for ages 21 and up for information on the Atlanta, Georgia BDSM community and events, including other SE states.
  • BDSM Australia - A place for open discussion for members of the Australian BDSM community.
  • BDSM-Battle Creek - This List is to promote the serious BDSM scene in the Battle Creek area of Calhoun County, but will include all other locations within an easy drive of Cereal City: Muskegon, Holland, Grand Rapids, Lansing, Detroit, Windsor, Ontario, Ann Arbor, Jackson, Kalamazoo, Portage, Coldwater, Benton Harbor, Niles, Three Rivers, Flint, Saginaw, Great Lakes, Michigan
  • BDSM BBW subs - A list for the BBW sub to find her master and for Dom/mes to find their partners.
  • BDSM Beaumont Texas - BDSM_Beaumont_TX is for anybody interested in BDSM (bondage and discipline, domination and submission, sado-masochism) in Southeast Texas and Southwest Louisiana (Golden Triangle, Beaumont, Port Arthur, Orange, Jasper, Lake Charles, Livingston, Houston).
  • BDSM Birmingham - Mailing list for people interested in BDSM, D/s Lifestyles in Birmingham (UK)
  • BDSM Books and movies - A serious discussion list of bdsm-related movies and books such as Breaking the Waves or In the Company of Men.
  • BDSM Bowling Green - This group has quickly outgrown the Bowling Green area, and as such, the members and founders felt that the name 'BDSM-Bowling Green' didn't serve the many of us living outside of Bowling Green. In fact, the group has come to encompass members from most of southern Kentucky.
  • BDSM Brasil (Portugese) - BDSM, Dominação, Submissão, Fetiches, Spanking, etc. Esta lista é livre para qualquer tipo de conversa relativa ao assunto.
  • BDSM British Columbia North - For serious, like minded bdsm individuals who live in Northern British Columbia, Canada, to meet, network, share ideas, interesting web sites, pix, and any other topic related goodies.
  • BDSM Buy-Sell-Trade - Do you want to buy, sell or trade BDSM and/or bondage related sex toys? Then this is the place for you...
  • BDSM Cafe - Here we post our opinions, hold discussions, post pics etc....
  • BDSM California Events - Bdsm_Calif_Events is an announcement list for people in the BDSM lifestyle in the state of California.
  • BDSM Calona - This unmoderated and uncensored List hopes to bring together the BDSM Lifestyle from the wine country of the Okanagan Valley of Super Natural British Columbia and includes Okanogan, Washington north thru Osoyoos, Penticton, Kelowna, Vernon, and all other communities in and around Lake Okanagan in south central British Columbia, CANADA.
  • BDSM Canadians - A Canadian group with the freedom of discussion in the lifestyle.
  • BDSM Cape Girardeau - This is a list for people interested in BDSM who live in or around the Cape Girardeau, Missouri area.
  • BDSM Central Illinois - A pansexual BDSM discussion list for adults 21 years of age or older. This list is for people who are interested in or active in the BDSM culture realtime in the Central Illinois area: Bloomington-Normal, Clinton, Decatur, Champaign-Urbana, Springfield, Lincoln areas
  • BDSM Colorado - This is a mailing list for individuals who are involved or interested in learning about the lifestyle of BDSM.
  • BDSM Costuming - For anyone interested in making, designing, or wearing costumes to enhance our BDSM experiences.
  • BDSM Domain SoCal ALT - We are a new list with some new ideas.
  • BDSM Ds Spank - For Adults only that are in to and want to share anything about spanking, masochism, sadism, bondage, siscipline, D/s, BDSM, slave, Dom, whipping, licking, flogging, etcetera
  • BDSM Employment - This list is assists people in the SM/Leather/Fetish communities with locating a lifestyle and/or scene-friendly job.
  • BDSM Europe - Main goal of this list is to share information about BDSM events and activities in European countries and to discuss BDSM in Europe.
  • BDSM Event Planning - This list is for people interested in organizing BDSM events from Munch Groups and Play Parties to Workshops and Conventions.
  • BDSM Event Planning - This list was designed as a place for Alternative Lifestyle event organizers to share ideas, experiences, and other information to help the community develop safer and better organized community meetings and events.
  • BDSM Events UK - (Signpost to their new home)
  • BDSM Erotica Writers - The purpose of this list is to bring together novice and serious writers of BDSM and other alternative erotica so we can find community and help each other improve as writers and just have fun!
  • BDSM Finland (Finnish) - Keskustelulista kaikille Suomessa asuville BDSM:stä kiinnostuneille.
  • BDSM Fireplay - This is a group for ANYONE who has a fascination with fire both sexually and non sexually.
  • BDSM Fitness - A sub/dom based group for those wishing to improve their weight and overall exercise, and for those who are willing to help with tips, ideas and solutions.
  • BDSM Florida Over 40 - This list is for Dominants, submissives and switches over 40 in Florida to exchange ideas and information on anything related to BDSM and life in general.
  • BDSM Friends - This group is for people (18+) interested in discussing life and involvement/interest in BDSM.
  • BDSM Geschichten (German) - BDSM-Geschichten in deutscher Sprache? Gibt es die überhaupt? In Newsgroups findet man hierzu kaum etwas, und wenn, dann allenfalls zaghafte Versuche.
  • BDSM Gothic UK - A crossover discussion group for those interested in goth and BDSM
  • BDSM Greater Minnesota - Finally, folks - an unrestricted, unmoderated list to discuss the true state of BDSM in Minnesota.
  • BDSM Graphics - BDSMGraphics exists to encourage those in, or who are considering a BDSM lifestyle.
  • BDSM Holidays - BDSM-friendly holidays in France.
  • BDSM Human rights - For discussion and information about human rights abuse relating to BDSM
  • BDSM Idaho - This list is created to further the education and growth of the BDSM community in Idaho.
  • BDSM in and around Montreal - This List is for people living in or around the Montreal - Canada - area, or planning a visit to our city, who are involved in or interested in learning about the lifestyle.
  • BDSM in Buffalo NY - A BDSM discussion group mainly geared toward Male Dom/ female sub D/s relationships but open to everyone.
  • BDSM Ireland - Forum for anyone interested in talking about and taking part in bdsm in Ireland.
  • BDSM Italia IRC (Italian) - #bdsm.italia il canale IRC italiano dedicato ai rapporti di Dominazione, sottomissione, Bondage e disciplina, sadomasochismo ed altri feticismi assortiti
  • BDSM Kingston Ontario - This is a group for singles and couples who are into the BDSM scene in Kingston Ontario, Canada as well as for those who are interested in finding out more about BDSM.
  • BDSM KY - Discussion and meeting place for people in Kentucky and surrounding areas interested in BDSM, D/s, etc. Trolling ok.
  • BDSM Legal Issues - This list is dedicated to legal issues surrounding BDSM as a consensual lifestyle, businesses whose major trade or product caters to people who engage in BDSM, and groups who are looking to discuss legal issues as they endeavor to set up groups/clubs/organizations.
  • BDSM Legal Moderated - This list is not for the mere discussion of opinion, or random complaining, this list is specifically here to provide hard information on case studies, well researched posts on possible defense strategies and ways to protect yourself.
  • BDSM Liverpool - A group for over 18's in the Liverpool (UK) area and interested in the bdsm scene
  • BDSM London - London and surrounding counties BDSM discussion group
  • BDSM Lubbock - Searching for like minded adults in the Lubbock, Texas area who enjoy any or all aspects of BDSM.
  • BDSM Male UK - A new group for men in the Uk, whether you be dom/sub/slave etc
  • BDSM meeting place - For those of you that enjoy the bdsm lifestyle (married/single/gay/straight) this is a great place to meet up with others!
  • BDSM Minnesota - This is an unmoderated list for people in the Minneapolis, St Paul and greater Minnesota area.
  • BDSM Minnesota - General discussion of B&D, D/s, S&M issues. Discussion of submission and domination, training, lifestyle and community issues in Minnesota.
  • BDSM Montreal - This is a discussion forum for people in and around Montreal interested in BDSM
  • BDSM Montreal Announce - This list is for announcing web sites, BDSM activities. etcetera.
  • BDSM Nashville - This list for the scene people of Nashville, TN.
  • BDSM Nebraska - You're not alone out here! Bdsm is alive and well in Nebraska!
  • BDSM Neo (Italian) - BDSMneo si propone come spazio per approfondire tematiche riguardanti il bdsm a livello pratico, teorico e culturale.
  • BDSM New York - Come on in, and lets talk about the lifestyle R/T. a safe place to open up and discusse questions and concerns about a lifestyle which is ever changing and growing.
  • BDSM New York City - The bdsm_nyc mailing list is intended to provide a meeting place for ladies and gents in the New York City, New Jersey, and Philadelphia area who are interested in BDSM.
  • BDSM Newbies Ontario - A place for those new to bdsm to discuss the issues and joys of power exchange.
  • BDSM NL Real (Dutch) - Dit is de Nederlandsw lijst die hoort bij nl-bdsm. Hier praten we over algemene zaken, bv onze site zodat we onze nl-bdsm lijst alleen maar hoeven te gebruiken voor BDSM.
  • BDSM Noord Nederland (Dutch) - Alle oude en nieuwe weetjes over SM in noord Nederland
  • BDSM New Zealand - Polite, nonjudgemental, forum for the discussion of the D/s, B&D, and SM lifestyle with particular emphasis on the New Zealand situation.
  • BDSM of New Jersey - This list is for all aspects of BDSM of New Jersey. Singles and couples are welcome to join.
  • BDSM of Tacoma - An informational site and meeting place for Dominants and submissive alike. A communication venue for those who would like to talk about the lifestyle and general thoughts.
  • BDSM Ohio - This discussion list was created by The Ohio Hedonistic Society, for, but not restricted to, people living in Ohio who have an interest in D/s, S/m, B&D and other related fetishes.
  • BDSM Ohio Personals - This is a list for people to post to find others in the Ohio Area.
  • BDSM Oregon - A place to exchange thoughts, opinions, meet others in the lifestyle in the state of Oregon who enjoy the BDSM and D/s lifestyle.
  • BDSM Pacific NorthWest - This list is a provided as a social arena for those people in the D/s, M/s, bdsm lifestyle in the Pacific Northwest, California and Canada.
  • BDSM Personals - A respectable place where people can leave personal ads of a bdsm or D/s nature to connect with other like-minded people.
  • BDSM Personals - This is egroups's LARGEST list for BDSM Personal Ads. We are SPAM free, pansexual, nonjudgemental, and have over 2,200 members.
  • BDSM Personals Canada - This is a pansexual place specifically set up for CANADIANS in the BDSM scene.
  • BDSM personals Chicago - This list is for ADULTS (Over 18) who are interested in meeting that special Dom/me or submissive partner here in the Chicago area.
  • BDSM Pictures - Post your pictures or stories of Bondage and BDSM.
  • BDSM Pony Play - For players in the human pony scene who incorporate bdsm as a part of their pony play.
  • BDSM Rhode Island - BDSM RI was founded by people for people involved in the BDSM community.
  • BDSM Rijnmond (Dutch) - Ontmoetingspunt voor belangstellenden in BDSM in Rotterdam en wijde omstreken
  • BDSM Romania - This group is intended for serious people having serious interests and sharing one passion: alternative life-style. BDSM, D/s, doms, slaves, you name it
  • BDSM Safe Haven - This is a support group for survivors of abuse, ones, and others interested in BDSM and abuse issues. who engage in BDSM, and groups who are looking to discuss legal issues as they endeavor to set up groups/clubs/organizations.
  • BDSM San Antonio - is a Yahoo mailing list designed to keep the BDSM, D/s and related communities in San Antonio informed and in contact with each other.
  • BDSM San Francisco Bay channel - #BDSMsfbay on dalnet irc. Kink with an alternate bay view. Welcome to the channel.
  • BDSM School - This is the perfect place to talk and share; ideas, thoughts and experiences.
  • BDSM Scene Reports - BDSM scene reports. In other words, folks who have an exceptionally good scene will often write up the story to be posted, and this is one of the lists where you can read it.
  • BDSM Seattle - This List is for those living in the greater Seattle/Pacific Northwest Area who live a D/s - BDSM, TPE Alternative Lifestyle.
  • BDSM South Africa - For those who want to meet with others who share similar interests in BDSM in South Africa
  • BDSM South Wales (UK) - There seems to be a lack of groups in south Wales so I thought I'd start one. Open to anyone who is genuinely interested in BDSM and who lives or has lived in Wales.
  • BDSM South West UK - A club open to all but based in the South West UK for those interested in fetish or the D/s SM lifestyle.
  • BDSM - Southend Social Club - This is the list of the Southend Social Club... A south Seattle Munch Group that meets in Auburn, WA. [South King County]. All those with an interest in D/s-BDSM living in Seattle, South King County, Western Washington, Washington and the Pacific Northwest are welcome to join the list.
  • BDSM - Steelfet - This is the mailing list for the Steeltown (Hamilton Ontario Canada) Society, a group that regularly holds munches and other bdsm related events.
  • BDSM Stuttgart (German) - Offene Liste für SM-Interessiere im Raum Stuttgart
  • BDSM submissive safety - BDSM, bondage, D/s, S&M, New submissives in New England, Rhode Island, Massachusetts, Connecticut
  • BDSM Texas - BDSM social club and dungeon providing an atmosphere to learn and enjoy the lifestyle.
  • BDSM Texas Events - This is a high content, low volume Newsletter/announcement list for events of interest to kinky people in Texas.
  • BDSM Toronto - For (mostly) couples in the GTA who are interested or are involved in a female dominated BDSM relationship. Femdom, malesub, bondage, spanking, total power exchange, female supremacy, etc.
  • BDSM Toys - This list is mainly for the discussion of bdsm toys, techniques and methods.
  • BDSM Tri Cities - We are a community of persons in the Tri-Cities Tennessee area that are interested in exploring alternative lifestyles.
  • BDSM Tucson - Primarily dedicated to BDSM and Alternative Lifestyles and the people who practice them in the Tucson, AZ area.
  • BDSM UK - Are you into BDSM? Living in the UK? Looking for people into the same lifestyle? Then look no further, you have cum to the right place.
  • BDSM UK Switches - This is a forum for people who are BDSM orientated (into bondage, SM, power play etc.) and can switch between the dom & sub roles. The group is aimed at people living in England, Scotland, and Wales
  • BDSM Upstate New York - This forum is dedicated to singles seeking to find a partner who shares their interest in and dedication to Domestic Discipline between consenting adults.
  • BDSM Vacation - This is a group to facilitate the passing on of the BDSM travel opportunities found in diffrent local areas.
  • BDSM Vendors - This list is for vendors who create quality BDSM toys and equipment. It is a place to share ideas and marketing strategies, ask questions and learn from each other.
  • BDSM West Virginia - This is an adults-only list for people living in West Virginia and surrounding areas; Ohio, Kentucky, Virginia, Penn. Emphasis is on bondage and disciple as a sexual fetish and as a lifestyle.
  • BDSM Vlaanderen (Dutch) - In de eerste plaats een Nederlandstalige lijst, waar geïnteresseerde leken, slaafjes en meesters zich kunnen voorstellen of een partner zoeken, ervaringen uitwisselen en hulp vragen/bieden.
  • BDSM Wales - Ever wondered if BDSM exists in Wales?
  • BDSM Washington State - This is for anyone living in Washington state and are interested or are living BDSM. This is mainly for Bi-women and lesbians.
  • BDSM Wisconsin - BDSM for People in Wisconsin, Illinois, Minnesota, Indiana, and Ohio. A forum to discuss the various practices of D/s - BDSM in a non threatening environment.
  • BDSM Witches
  • BDSM World - Hosted by Lady Sun's School of Domination.
  • BDSM Workshop - Discussion of the design and construction of BDSM (bondage and discipline, sadism and masochism, dominance and submission) accessories, toys, and furniture.
  • BESS announce - BESS is the Baltimore Educational and Social Society, a BDSM organization open to consenting adults of all orientations and gender
  • BiNet South Central - We welcome all lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgendered, questioning, those into BDSM, and significant others of any of the above to join us
  • Bisexual New Jersey Women in BDSM - This BDSM list is open to all women in NJ, Dominant or submissive involved in BDSM who would like an open, friendly, informative email forum where we could all exchange ideas, opinions, concerns, news, etc. without being judged or censored.
  • B&D Family Portugal (Portugese) -Discussão envolvendo BDSM: S&M, D/s e principalmente Bondage. Desde troca de informações, endereços de sites, dicas, até "papo furado" entres os adeptos. Aberta à todos.
  • Bondage - People who love Bondage
  • Bondage Calgary - Bondage Calgary is a group dedicated to the search for your perfect BDSM partner in Calgary, Alberta, Canada.
  • Bondage in Wales - For all adults in Wales (UK) that have an interest in erotic bondage.
  • Bondage Israël - A mailing list for the israeli BDSM community.
  • Bondage Madrid (Spanish) - Lista para gente que viva en madrid que este interesada en los juegos de dominacion con esposas, el bondage, el cuero, etc.....
  • Bondage Norway (Norwegian - Norsk) - Mailing-listen er modererert, så spamming er bortimot umulig. Flere stikkord: Norge Norsk Skandinavia Skandinavisk sadisme sex SM S&M fetish fetishisme.
  • Bondage Pain UK - This list is set up for people mainly in the UK thought other input is welcome.
  • Bondage SM (Spanish) - Lista para l@s amantes del sado y de la sumision consensuados.
  • Bondage slut slave dove - 24/7 Slave Dove, B-D-S-M Pix
  • Boston Area Spanking - It is a place for Massachusetts/NE spanking enthusiasts to come together, get to know one another, exchange ideas, experiences and to share resources.
  • Boston slaves - This list is meant for Boston area subs/slaves and aale and female Doms to post personals for real life relationships.
  • Bound by Leather and Chains - Welcome:BBLC is a pansexual educational,support and discussion group for R/T lifestylers.
  • Bound for Pleasure Boston - "Bound for Pleasure" a New England BDSM social group. This list is open to anyone interested in the scene.
  • Brit BDSM Personals - In Britain? Into BDSM? Single? Well, you guessed it, this list is an attempt to redress that balance, by allowing you the opportunity to find your partner (or more than one, if that's your bag.)
  • Brit BDSM women only - For BDSM Lifestyle interested women only. A forum for women (Domme or sub) to discuss this wonderful lifestyle, and those few things that the men just don't want to hear!
  • British BDSM - Into BDSM? Trying to find it in the UK, but not having much luck wading through the seeming millions of American lists and odd (very odd) European lists? Don't want to have to cross the Atlantic to find it, nor the Channel? Then you've come to the right place.




Groups C

  • Cambridge BDSM - This list focuses on BDSM in Cambs (UK).
  • Camden Spank - This list caters to the folks of Camden County, Gloucester County, and Burlington County, New Jersey. The main topic is spanking, but light BDSM is acceptable.
  • Canberra BDSM - This mailing list is a support group based in Canberra, Australia, and its surroundings.
  • Caning in Wisconsin - A list for spanking folks in Wisconsin who have a particular interest in giving or receiving stokes of the cane.
  • Capex - The Charlotte Area Power Exchange is a not-for-profit pansexual organization in Charlotte and the Southern North Carolina areas.
  • Carolina BDSM - This is a list for people in the Carolinas who are into the BDSM Lifestyle or who are interested in learning more about it.
  • CASE mail - This list is for sharing Party Information,Good news, Bad news and anything in between.
  • CB-2000 - For wearers, keyholders, and potential users of the CB-2000 Chastity Device
  • Central Jersey BDSM - This list is dedicated to the exchange of information related to BDSM for people living in the Central New Jersey area
  • Central Texas TNG - Group members should be between the ages of 18-35 but older newcomers to the BDSM community will be allowed to join.
  • Central Valley BDSM - Events, Discussion and Announcements for the BDSM community located in the Central Valley area of California.
  • Ceples (Indonesian - Bahasa Indonesia) - Forum komunikasi dan tukar pendapat, cerita atau pengelaman untuk orang Indonesia yang tertartik dengan hal pemukulan pantat baik sebagai hukuman maupun bagian dari permainan cinta.
  • Chain me - To Promote Hard Bondage / Discipline / sexual torture of willing victims.
  • Charleston SC BDSM - A portal where others can learn about the BDSM lifestyle in the Charleston, South Carolina area.
  • Chicago BDSM Singles - This list has been created as a service for members of the BDSM lifestyle in the Chicago Area.
  • Chicago Crimson Moon - This is a mailing list for people interested in Chicago spanking. D/s and BDSM people are very welcome. The main focus of this room will be spanking and meeting people in the spanking scene.
  • Chicago MaleDom/femsub - This is a list for those who are in the BDSM lifestyle in the greater Chicago area and neighboring states.
  • Cincinnati BDSM - For serious discussion of topics related to BDSM. Personals also encouraged.
  • Cincinnati_Ds - Hi Everybody! This is Drakatar and sweetpee..a Dom/sub couple in the northern Cincinnati area..looking for other couples/singles in the Cincinnati/Northern Kentucky/Indiana area seriously interested in the D/s, BDSM, S&M, etc. lifestyles.
  • Cincy BDSM Personals - This is a place to submit your personal ads to find partners for BDSM Relationships in the Cincinnati, Ohio area.
  • Club Coliseum - Information about the "Coliseum" - a Fetish/BDSM and Goth/Alternative Club, based in Liverpool, U.K., but operating all over the north of England.
  • Club Inquisition Events - A group for those interested in Club Inquisition and those events and training it conducts in Adelaide South Australia
  • Coacher - Coacher's group dedicated to the transformation of human into obedient doggies and ponies.
  • Cobb Dinner Munch - List for the Cobb county, GA, BDSM Dinner Munches
  • Cobblestones Cuckold Heaven - You've wandered into a safe, sane and consentual haven for submissive cuckold husbands, their dominant wives, and the Bulls who bring excitement and happiness into their lives.
  • Colorado Springs BDSM - If you are involved in or interested in bondage, dominance and submission, sadomasochism, etc., and live in the Colorado Springs area, this group is for you.
  • Columbia Erotic Power Exchange - Announcement and discussion list for Mid-Missouri bdsm social group, Columbia Erotic Power Exchange.
  • Connecticut BDSM - Dedicated to the BDSM lifestyle people of Connecticut together but, all are welcome to join
  • Contos de Dominadoras Portugal (Portugese) - Lista para contos e afins sobre dominadoras, sejam elas sua mulher, filha, chefa, vizinha, empregada, amiga ou aquela pessoa que você procura. Aqui é o lugar. Devido a falta de uma lista assim em português, esta foi criada. Palavras-chave: dominação, dominadoras, submissos, submissas, subs, BDSM, SM, submissão, humilhação.
  • Coventry BDSM - A group for people in Coventry (UK) and the surrounding area interested in BDSM and power exchange.
  • CROP - Carolina Ropes of Pleasure - Consenting Adults over 18 only. Munch group of Wilmington, NC.
  • CT Human pets - This egroup is setup for those that have an intrest in human pet play and live in the CT area.
  • CT munch -This is an announcement only mailing list for people that are interested in attending the Connecticut BDSM munches
  • CUFF - Charlottesville Underground Fetish Fellowship list for those who are members of CUFF or for those who have an interest in the BDSM lifestyle in the central Virginia area.
  • CUFS Maine BDSM Forum - An educational and safety forum for members of the Maine and New England BDSM and alternative lifestyle communities.
  • Cyberdiscipline - An adults-only list for those of us who know that "cyber only" Domination, submission, discipline, and humiliation can be very real and intense and worthwhile.




Groups D

  • DADG - A Des Moines area discussion group for those over 21 who are interested in the BDSM and D/s lifestyles.
  • Dallas Fort Worth BDSM - This list is for those living in the extended DFW metroplex & surrounding towns, North TX & South OK areas & living/interested in the Leather/BDSM Lifestyle.
  • Dallas Women's Group - To talk with women in the Dallas Texas Area involved in or interested in becoming involved in alternative lifestyles. including but not limited to BDSM, D/s, SM and polyamory.
  • Darkest Desires Central Texas - Pan-Fetish/Pan-Sexual, independent, volunteer social and support group open to anyone interested in BDSM, D/s and Fetish. The Group is based in San Antonio but serves members throughout the Central Texas area.
  • Dayton Ohio BDSM - For Dayton, and S/W-Ohio persons, seeking Chat, E-mail or even RT meetings..
  • Daytona FLorida Munch - We are a BDSM-oriented social group in Daytona Beach, FL.
  • DC Baltimore BDSM - This list is for people living in the DC/Balt metro area that are interested in unrestricted conversation about BDSM and related issues.
  • DC D/s - A list for adults who live in or travel to the Washington Dc / Baltimore area and desire to arrange Dominate/submissive / BDSM meetings with others in the area..
  • DCS - Forum for DC Spanking, a private social organization in the DC metro area, devoted to consensual adult spanking play
  • DE MD PA NJ BDSM - This groups is for East Coast BDSM Lifestylers to meet, chat and get to know eachother.
  • Delaware BDSM - Promoting the local BDSM community in Delaware, USA. Where can we go to play? To shop for toys? To meet each other? Is there anything closer than Baltimore (Maryland) or Philadelphia (Pennsylvania)?
  • Delmarva-Ds - For those who wish to meet and with others who share in the same interests.
  • DELMARVA spanking - A place where spankers and spankees living on the Delmarva Peninsula (DE, MD, VA) can meet and possibly find soul mates for long term relationships.
  • Denver CO BDSM - This is a list for those in the Denver, Colorado scene who are interested in BDSM, any aspect.
  • Denver BDSM - Discussion group for BDSM (bondage SM dominance submission disciplin role-playing etc.) in the Denver, Colorado area.
  • Denver Bound - Denver Bound Dinner/Play Group
  • Denver Society of Ds - This list is created for people living (or visiting) the Denver Metro area who are interested in Power Exchange (the D/s part of BDSM).
  • DFW BDSM - A local group for those involved in the lifestyle in North Texas.
  • Different Delights - We are a Pansexual BDSM group in the Shreveport Bossier City area. This group is open to anyone in Shreveport-Bossier, NW Louisiana or the Ark-La-Tex with an interest in BDSM, D/s or S&M.
  • DL Cinema - Video files
  • DL Cinema LP - Long play video files
  • Do-it-yourself kink - This list is about low-cost alternatives to high-ticket BDSM toys and accessories.
  • Dom m sub f stories 2 - This list is an ADULT list created for the exchange of stories of dominant males and submissive females.
  • Dom sub - This is an open forum for those who have an interest in or are living the lifestyle of BDSM.
  • Dom sub Polls - A group for taking or designing BDSM-related polls of any kind
  • Domestic Pet Play - A community for pet play enthusiasts- all kitties, puppies, and owners (and all those interested) welcome.
  • Dominance submission - For those seeking serious REAL TIME discussions on the science of BDSM (D/s) Lifestyle.
  • Dominance submission Florida - This list is the Florida (SIG) special interest group to the Main Dominance_submission List
  • Dominant Dominion - This list is for members of Dominant Dominion, and those interested in learning about the Top side in the balance that is D/s.
  • Domination Seattle - Open list for those interested in the happenings and lifestyle of BDSM in the Seattle region.
  • DomSub - "Knowledge is Power" Candid adult discussions and polls on Dominant/submissive (D/s), Master/slave (M/s), and/or Bondage, Discipline, Sado-Masochism (BDSM) and Polyamourous relationships, topics, subjects and insights designed to expand your mind or challenge your beliefs.
  • DomSubfriends - Pansexual BDSM Society with demos, lectures and parties serving NY, NJ and CT areas
  • Doornroosje (Dutch) - Lijst voor het Nederlandstalige deel van België en de Doornroosje organisatie.
  • Ds Atlanta
  • Ds Discussion Manitoba - Messages in this group are restricted to serious discussion of the Dominant/submissive lifestyle.
  • Ds Fairbanks - Forum for the discussion of D/s topics and other topics of interest to the D/s Community in the interior of Alaska.
  • Ds Kiosk - D/s, Bondage, Pictures, Art, Discussion ,Toy Making, Fantasy, BDSM, Spanking , Sensual Adventures, Stories, Scene Reports.
  • Ds New Hampshire - is a 21+ BDSM list group, formed so we can keep in touch, keep informed and discuss issues of concern to us all.
  • Ds Relationships - This is a discussion list for people who are involved in fulltime D/s relationships.
  • Ds Southeast - Join the D/s Southeast community, previously known as DsAtlanta.
  • Ds World Notify - Join the D/s Southeast community, previously known as DsAtlanta.
  • Ds Zirkel (German) - Der DS - Zirkel ist zu Sartgroups umgezogen, da Yahoo erotischen Gruppen und Mailinglisten feindlich gegenübersteht (Signpost for its new home).
  • DSSD - Ds Society of Detroit
  • DSSG - Toronto - DSSG-Toronto list is for those in the southwestern Ontario bdsm community to discuss our events and the bdsm lifestyle
  • DsWWW - A discussion list for people who build and maintain websites with D/s content, which are not pornographic.
  • Dungeon ISO - Moderated personals group
  • Dungeon toys - I enjoy designing my own BDSM & Dungeon Toys




Groups E

  • East Anglia BDSM - To help fetish people from the East Anglia region of the UK hook up and discuss (sanely and intelligently, hopefully) related matters and local meets and munches.
  • East Florida Ds BDSM - BDSM, D/s, spanko and other likeminded folks in East Florida come discuss the lifestyle, meet others.
  • East Kern North LA County BDSM - This list is open to A/all Dominants and submissives/slaves alike in the east Kern and upper LA county areas as a place to have open discussions and meet others who enjoy this lifestyle.
  • East Midlands BDSM - A free forum for the benefit and enjoyment of people into the BDSM lifestyle
  • East Texas Spanking - A list for us spankers out here in East Texas who haven't given up on the chance that we may not be the only one out here.
  • Eastcoast BDSM - This is a list for the east coast. States like PA,CT, Delaware, NY, NJ, VA, etc.
  • El Subastador (Spanish) - Este grupo es para todos los Amos y esclavas de Chile (>18 años) que estén interesados en realizar sus fantasías de dominación y sumisión.
  • Electric BDSM - This list is devoted to those that enjoy Electric Play within the realm of BDSM.
  • Emblem Project - News and information about The Emblem Projects products and events.
  • Enemapix - For the open exchange of enema pictures and similar graphic material.
  • Enslavement - Primarily for announcements about the Internal Enslavement website
  • Equus eroticus - Sponsored by the Adult Magazine EQUUS EROTICUS, a publication about human ponygirls and ponyboys
  • European Ds - The list is for submissive females and dominant males, living in Europe.
  • Erotic slavery - Gallery group for the showcasing of erotic artworks related to bondage, bdsm and other submissive visual art forms.
  • European Ds - Welcome to EuropeanDs! The list is for European submissive females and dominant males.
  • Eville in Indiana BDSM - Evansville Indiana bdsm group



Groups F

  • FAPEX - This mailing list is for those interested in D/S and BDSM In and around the Fayetteville, North Carolina Area.
  • Fairbanks Power Exchange - This list is for those living in and around Fairbanks Alaska that are into the Power Exchange lifestyle, who have become friends due to common interest in BDSM.
  • Female Sadism - To explore the topic of Women who receive fulfillment from causing pain, emotionally and physically.
  • Fem Sadism Personals - A meeting place for those interested in female sadism.
  • Female sub stories - This is a list for men and women to share bdsm scene stories and fantasies.
  • Females in trouble - Drawings and photos of females in perils and bondage, including superheroine pictures.
  • Females in trouble 2 - Drawings and photos of females in perils and bondage, including superheroine pictures.
  • Femdom Brasil (Portugese) - Lista dedicada aos adeptos de BDSM - Bondage, Dominação/submissão, Sadomasoquismo, com ênfase nos aspectos relativos à DOMINAÇÃO FEMININA.
  • Femdom Christians - We are Dominant Females and we are Christians. We welcome male submissives and Female Dominants.
  • Femdom India - This group is for people - both Dominant and submissives in India or from India to get to know each other and post messages.
  • Femdom malesub - Female Domination, male submission and the world of D/s-BDSM
  • Femdom UK - A place for UK people to meet and discuss FemDom, D/S and BDSM related matters.
  • FemDomme femsubs-slaves - This list is for female dominants and female subs/slaves/switches ONLY to discuss the issues and dynamics of the Fem/fem BDSM lifestyle.
  • FemDommes New England - BDSM, D/s, and FemDomme for Rhode Island, Massachussetts, New England,
  • Femsub support - Support group for submissive (and sub-curious) women. Women only.
  • Femsubmissives - This is a list for FEMALE ONLY submissives, slaves and kajira only. To come and share their knowlegde, questions, and life with others of like minds.
  • Fetish alliance - We are a pansexual organization and website located in South Florida supporting the entire fetish community.
  • Fetish Montreal (English & French) - Le Club Fetish Montreal: Events and announcments will be posted through this list.
  • Fetish News - Bi-weekly newsletter focused on erotic power exchange, bdsm and popular fetishes.
  • Fetish Sewing - For the discussion of Costume design, sewing, and related subjects for those involved with or interested in the fetish and BDSM lifestyle.
  • Fetishwear - This is a list for Fetish Clothing, not Fetish's. Latex, PVC, Leather, Thigh High Boots just to mention a few..
  • FIST Women - FIST is a social and educational club for women over 21 interested in SM, leather and fetish between women.
  • Flint Alt BDSM - Flint, Michigan, BDSM, Atlernative Lifestyles, Munch Group
  • Florida Spanking - Spanking in florida
  • Fort Worth BDSM - List for adults in Fort Worth, Texas, who are into BDSM, D/s, spanking, bondage, discipline, sub, dom. Let's get to know each other.
  • Fort Worth personals - For All adults from Fort Worth, Texas. If you looking for a special someone or even someones. Rather it be spanking, straight sex, bi, bi_curious, gay, male, female, BDSM or D/s.
  • Furry links - This is a low volume list to help people trade links and share information about furry sites.



Groups G

  • Gay Master/slave contracts - Master slave contracts are very highly erotic to me. So I set this group up for others who feel the same or who want to find examples of these contracts or who want to share their own favorites.
  • Gay SM Croatia - Master slave contracts are very highly erotic to me. So I set this group up for others who feel the same or who want to find examples of these contracts or who want to share their own favorites.
  • Georgia BDSM Lifestyle - This is a list oriented around the BDSM lifestyle in Atlanta, Georgia, and the southeast.
  • Georgia Kink - This particular list is open to adults, 17+, in and around the Georgia area, though not necessarily limited to the Atlanta regio
  • German Spanking (German) - Ich versuche hier ein deutschsprachiges Spanking-Forum zu etablieren. Gedacht zu Austausch von Informationen und ggf. auch Bildern.
  • GL-Ds-Ms - Dominant/submissive, Master/slave relationship discussions of a day-to-day nature in the Great Lakes area, primarily Michigan
  • Gold Coast BDSM - This is a place where those who are involved in or would like to be involved in BDSM,who are free thinking and live on, or visit the Australia Gold Coast, can communicate and/or meet.
  • Gor Philosophy - This list was formed to discuss the philosophy of the fictional world of Gor.
  • Gorean Masters - This list is for meeting and discussion of men interested in the Gorean philosophy both online and in real life.
  • Gorean Whispers - Gorean Whispers is a discussion list (nearly 700 members) for people who take the lifestyle of Gor seriously.
  • Great Lakes BDSM - This mailing list is a place for those in Great Lakes area who have an interest in any aspect of BDSM, with Michigan as the hub.
  • GWNN - This the the Mail List for GWNN (the Group with No Name), a BDSM social organization in Austin Texas.



Groups H

  • Hampton Roads TNG - Hampton Roads: The Next Generation. This list is dedicated to those who are over 18 but under 35, who are into BDSM, kink and alternative lifestyles and are living in the Hampton Roads, VA area.
  • Hanging cages - This group is dedicated to the images and video footage of women in medievil contraptions of torture I.E. Hanging cages primerily but also racks, stocks, and any other torture device.
  • Harrisburg BDSM Meeting Place - A friendly place for people to meet who are interested in BDSM. Especifically geared to BDSM folks with vanilla spouses.
  • Hawaii BDSM
  • Hellfire Club New York - NYC formost dungeon chat, discuss topics, meet people
  • Houston BDSM - This list is for those of us here in Houston and the surrounding areas that area practicing or are interested in the BDSM lifestyle.
  • Houston mistress-slave - This list deals primarily with the mistress/slave (preferably male slave) relationships.
  • Houston spanking club - Red Bottoms Spanking Club Of Houston is a club for people who like to meet for parties involving adult consentual spanking.
  • Hudson Valley Munch - A group of Lifestylers planning on munches and other activities in the Hudson Valley area of NY.
  • Humiliation - For all adults interested in humiliation in association with spanking, punishment, or BDSM.
  • Humiliation Lover - A new list for all of those that have a interest in sexual humiliation.



Groups I

  • Idaho BDSM - A place where others in Idaho can meet that are in the lifestyle. But all are welcome in surounding areas.
  • Illinois BDSM - This list is designed for people all across Illinois, whether it is Chicago, Springfield or Carbondale, that are interested in BDSM.
  • Impact - A group created for people interested in BDSM events in the Midsouth.
  • India BDSM - This list has mainly been started to satisfy the domination -submission interests of Indian males and females and encourage meeting and flow of ideas, pictures and fantsies.
  • Indiana BDSM - This list is for people in the Indiana area and bordering states who are interested in discussing ideas with others in the BDSM
  • Inner Circle SoCal - Welcome to the discussion forum of The Inner Circle of Southern California.
  • Iran Femdom - This is a mailing list for who loves the concept of Femdom, this list belongs to all Iranian Mistresses and Femdommes who have slaves and submissives
  • Irish Spanking - This group has been formed to give males and females who are living in or visiting Ireland the opportunity to meet like minded people who are interested in the spanking scene.
  • Iron rose community - Iron Rose Community Monthly Newsletter. An adult community, with BDSM themed contents of the newsletter. For 18+ only.
  • Israeli Gay SM - A list for gay men, Isreali and non-Israeli 18 or over into BDS



Groups J

  • Jacksonville FL Spankingclub - Do you live in or near Jacksonvill Florida. and love to be spanked or give a good spanking, then this is where you want to place your add.
  • Japan BDSM - A list for Adults only who reside in Japan and seek local contacts to discuss different aspects of BDSM and start a munch group.
  • JAPE organization - This is a place for those within the BDSM community of Jacksonville Florida and surrounding areas to share ideas and information in an open forum.
  • Jessica's Sexual Clothing and Bootery
  • Jewels of Gor - linking of individuals wishing training in Gorean Life Style - based on the Gor Books by John Norman
  • Jewish BDSM UK - This group is for Jewish people from the UK who wish to explore the wonderful and fulfilling world of BDSM.
  • Jewish Power Exchange



Groups K

  • Kansas City BDSM players - This list has been created as a way for other D/s lifestyle players in the Kansas City Metro area to meet and find other's to exchange thoughts and partners if that is their desire.
  • Kentucky Underground Fetish Society - A pansexual BDSM/fetish community in the Central Kentucky area (Lexington).
  • Kesher - The Israeli BDSM community mailing list
  • Keystone Power Exchange - Keystone Power Exchange(KPE) invites all BDSM lifestylers in Pennsylvania to join our growing group
  • Kidz & Adultz Together Sharing - This list is for Ageplay-related discussion and announcements, as well as interaction within role. Editotes nore: Ageplay is a form of roleplay between consenting ADULTS only.
  • Kinkiness Self Discovery - This List contains serious discussion of and research into the roots of (F/m, M/f, F/f, and M/m) in each member.
  • Kinky Aggies, Bryan College Station, Texas - This is an unmonitored list for adults in the Brazos Valley (Texas), more specifically Bryan College Station, who are into fetish interests including, but limited to, erotic spanking, bondage, BDSM, power exchange, role play, etc.
  • Kinky Couple Personals - This is a posting sight for couples into any alternative lifestyle to find like minded couples in their area.
  • Kinky Indiana - Hey all you kinky people in and around Indiana, it is time that "we" have our own list.... Spanking, BDSM, D&S, crossdress, suffocation fantasies, etc., nothing is to strange for this list.
  • Kinky Penguin Personals - Kinky BDSM personals for broad minded adults - whether penguin or not!
  • Kinky People of Georgia - A gathering of like minded individuals into or interested in the BDSM lifestyle.
  • KY-Leather - To provide a forum and communications site for individuals interested in finding out information on the leather scene and events in Kentucky.



Groups L

  • LabyrinthBDSM - The Labyrinth is a Denver, Colorado based real-time Private Membership Club for people of all sexual orientations that exists to provide education, training and first hand experience with Bondage, Dominance, submission, Sadomasochism, and a variety of other practices within the BDSM Leather scene as they relate to Master/slave, Daddy/boy/boi, Dominant/submissive, and Top/bottom relationships. We advocate and practice a philosophy of Safe, Sane and Consensual.
  • Ladies Tea and Adoration Society - A group that welcomes Dominant Women and Submissive men and women. Located in the Washington DC area we will have social activities and educational training meetings
  • Lady Moon Dance - Information on new Pagan, Celtic, Goddess, LBGT, and other offerings by Lady MoonDance.
  • LAPS - LAPS is an organization dedicated to those that 'go little' and the parents that love them in the greater Seattle area. Editors note: Ageplay is a form of roleplay between consenting ADULTS only
  • Las Mazmorras De Sade (Spanish) - Esta es una herramienta más del Club BDSM "El Establo" para seguidores de una forma de vivir basada en el sadomasoquismo.
  • Las Vegas BDSM - Las Vegas BDSM Social & Support Group - formerly BDSM Nevada
  • Las Vegas BDSM mail - Announcements for Las Vegas BDSM
  • LD Femdom BDSM - List run by an American Mistress and her English slave boy. BDSM and the challenges of long distant relationships are covered.
  • Le Chateau Exotique - Le Chateau Exotique ltd carries a full range of fetish clothing, shoes, dancewear, hundreds of corsets, jewelry, collars, BDSM implements, and tasteful adult toys as well as a vast selection of kinky and informational books, magazines and videos in our retail store located in New Hope, PA.
  • Leashed sluts - This group is dedicated to pics of chicks wearing leashes, collars, and chokers.
  • Leather Cellar - Quality Bondage Gear from Leather Cellar
  • Leather History - Discussion list focusing on the history of the Leather Community.
  • Leathermedia 2 - News and Breaking Stories about the Leather, Fetish, Kink and BDSM Communities.
  • Leather U - Discussion and posting forum for Leather University, Ft Lauderdale Florida. (Adult BDSM/fetish) For comments, suggestions, gripes, potential problems, etc.
  • Lions Dungeon - A list for all Dungeon trainees and their Masters.
  • LinX NC - LinX, A Charlotte, NC, based BDSM group.
  • Lite Bondage - I am a fan of Bondage, along with a part time participant, and I like the erotisism it can cause (as in pictures and stories) but I am not too fond of the extremes of it.
  • Long Island BDSM - This is a list for people on Long Island to discuss domination and submission, place personals for others on Long Island into bdsm, and plan get togethers.
  • Long Island Leather N Roses - This is an adult only list designed for the BDSM, or alternative lifestyle community that exists on Long Island, New York.
  • Long Island Metro BDSM singles - This group is for single (read: not involved in committed BDSM relationships) folks who want to meet and socialize with other single people. y7u
  • Long Island Munch - This is a list for people on Long Island, New York, interested in meeting and discussing BDSM as a lifestyle, what it means to them, and generally how it affects them and their lives.
  • Long Island New York Switchboard - Welcome to the Switch Board , We are a D/s BDSM Lifestyle support/discussion group dedicated to Dominant & submissive switches.
  • Long Island Spanking and Bondage - This is a group catering primarily to people in the Long Island/NYC/southern Westchester area, though all are welcome.
  • Los Angeles BDSM - The list is a forum for the BDSM community in the Los Angeles area, but everybody else is welcome to participate, too.
  • Los Angeles Bondage - Into Bondage? Into BDSM? Into kidnap fantasies?
  • Los Angeles Spank Now - Men, women, and couples are welcome to post their requests, ads and desires to actually meet others for spanking and other Dom/sub play in the Los Angeles area.
  • Louisiana BDSM - Email list for Louisiana residents or visitors who are interested in or engaged in any aspect of BDSM.
  • Louisiana BDSM (central) - Louisiana BDSM was started for those in central Louisiana who are involved in BDSM in some form or another and those who are curious or interested in joining the lifestyle.
  • Louisiana Power Exchange Association, Inc. - Louisiana Power Exchange Association, Inc. (formerly known as Capital Area Power Exchange) LPEA is a BDSM support group in Baton Rouge, Louisiana. This list is for announcement of all events sponsored by LPEA.
  • Louisiana sub fems - This list is for any submissive female seeking a place with a Dom in Louisiana.
  • Louisiana Submissives - This list is designed for submissives (and switches) in Louisiana to get to know one another.
  • Louisville Spank - This is a list for spankers and spankees in the Louisville Metro Area.
  • Loving Dominants Association - This is the discussion list for the Loving Dominants Association. You do have to be a member to use this list. If interested in more information about the LDA or becoming a member please write Joan at DaintyPet@darkmail.com. This list is for serious discussion and may be very active.
  • Lynchburg Ds - To facilitate planning for pan sexual BDSM discussion group meetings in Lynchburg, Virginia.



Groups M

  • Macon Georgia BDSM - This list is to unite the people who live in Macon Georgia or surrounding areas that are interested in the BDSM lifestyle.
  • Magics' World - The announcement list for updated essays, erotic fiction, and articles for the web site devoted to sexual enlightenment, self-expression, and sexual self-acceptance.
  • Mahogany pleasures of darkness - African american bdsm, bondage, pain, rope, chains, disclipline, domination, submission, restraint, S&M and spanking
  • Maine BDSM - The other BDSM List for those in Maine. Unmoderated and open to all that enjoy our alternative lifestyle.
  • Maine Downeast BDSM - A group for like minded folks in the DownEast area of Maine.
  • Male CP UK - Group for male/male CP and spanking in UK.
  • Maryland BDSM - The mission of this bulletin board or chat room is to provide S&M and Bondage/Discipline discussion points and get-together planning, etc. that will lead to fun events for Marylanders and residents of nearby states and the District of Columbia.
  • Maryland Lesbian BDSM - An open place for like minded W/women in Maryland, DC and Virginia who want to discuss BDSM in a lesbian context.
  • Maryland subs slaves couples - If you are interested in D\s Dom\sub relationships, domestic discipline or just being spanked this is the list for you.
  • Master slave TPE - This is a discussion list for Master/Slave TPE relationships. Total Power Exchange also known as Absolute Power Exchange.
  • Master slave UK - Discussion list for MasterSlave.org.uk
  • Mature Dom and sub - Dominant - submissive lifestyle support & discussion for mature adults
  • MDom - Founded by Carter Stevens almost a decade ago, MDOM is one of the oldest BDSM mailing lists currently running, and the inspiration of many of the lists found today.
  • Medical fetish - Medical fetish and clinic BDSM fetishists seeking a forum for discussion, sources, information and advice regarding the medical play scene within the BDSM community.
  • Melbourne BDSM - Melb-BDSM is a closed / private, unmoderated mailing list for Melbourne's - Australia - on-line BDSM social community and it carries information that is specific to this community only.
  • Memphis LINKS - This list is realtime BDSM Discusion / Demonstration group.
  • Memphis Munch - A munch is a chance for all of us in the bdsmds scene to meet in a comfortable friendly environment without worry, no matter what our personal kinks are.
  • Memphis Spanking - This list is for both male and female adults in the Memphis area that enjoy spanking or being spanked.
  • Miami Goth - Our mission is to bring together the goths in the Greater Miami /Ft. Lauderdale area, to meet, socialize, and share news of events, clubs and darker-style shopping places with other people of our genre.
  • Mich Is BDSM - This is a mailing list for people in Michigan to discuss, experience and enjoy all that BDSM has to offer.
  • Mich Sensuous BDSM - Mich Sensuous BDsm is meant for those in Michigan or who plan to visit or move here.
  • Michigan BDSM - This mailing list is a place for those in Michigan who have an interest in any aspect of BDSM to ask questions, debate relevent topics, learn about events of interest, and get to know each other both online and in person.
  • Michigan Bondage Group - Michigan Rope is a bondage discussion group based in SE Michigan, but anyone is welcome to join. We also have a munch and workshops, details are available to subscribers.
  • Michigan Munches - This is an announce-only list to inform subscribers of public BDSM gatherings in or near Michigan.
  • Mid Ohio Rose and Leather - This is the public mailing list for MORAL (Mid Ohio Rose and Leather), a pansexual BDSM group based in Columbus, Ohio.
  • Mid South BDSM - All people in this loosely defined geographic region including (at least portions of) Alabama, Arkansas, Georgia, Illinois, Kentucky, Louisiana, Missouri, Tennessee, Texas who share an interest in these topics are welcome to subscribe.
  • Mids Spank UK - This group has been set up to enable contact between people in the Midlands (UK) who are interested in spanking and CP.
  • Missouri BDSM - For individuals who currently live, or who are interested in, the bdsm lifestyle. Primarily for Doms/subs living in Missouri, the list is open to anyone over 21.
  • Mistress Lalique - This is the mailing list for visitors, worshipers, slaves & fans of Mistress Lalique professional dominatrix of Cape Cod and Boston MA, NYC, and Washington, DC.
  • Mistress Renee - A FEMDOM BDSM group
  • MM CP UK - Forum for ADULT males into corporal punishment (spanking, flogging, caning, school discipline, military discipline, prison scenes, etc) between consenting adults
  • MO bdsm - Primarily for Doms/subs living in Missouri, the list is open to anyone over 21.
  • Montana BDSM - This is an ADULTS over 21 only mailing list. Dedicated to the BDSM lifestyle people of Montana together but, all are welcome to join.
  • Montana BDSM - A site for sharing information and support of BDSM activities. Bringing like minded people together in a safe and non-threatening atmosphere. Based in Missoula in Western Montana
  • Movie Spank - If you see a spanking in a movie, television show, or read one in a book, post to this list right away!
  • Movie Spank 2 - When you were a kid did you ever imagine your favorite movie characters getting spanked?
  • Mr. Leather Holland - Keep in touch with Mr. Leather Holland and upcoming contests in Holland...
  • Myrtle Beach Kink - This is to fill the void that is known as Myrtle Beach.... All are welcome, and bring a friend if they have an interest in the BDSM lifestyle, lingo etc.



Groups N

  • NAPEX - North Alabama Power Exchange......A supportive community for the BDSM Lifestyle
  • Nanaimo BDSM - Watch for announcements of Nanaimo - Australia - munches and workshops.
  • Nashville Gor - This list is for those who live in the Mid-south area (including Middle TN, Southern KY, and Northern AL) who want to and do live the philosophy that is described in the books by John Norman about the planet Gor.
  • New England BDSM events - This is a Calendar of New England BDSM Events, where each group can post their events.
  • New England BDSM switches - This list is for discussion of what it means to be a switch, and also for announcements of BDSM events in New England.
  • New Jersey BDSM - This list is dedicated to the exchange of information related to BDSM for people living in the New Jersey area
  • New Jersey Dommes and subs - This group is for female Dominants and both male and female submissives located in the New Jersey/New York/Pa and surrounding areas.
  • New Jersey Dungeon - The New Jersey Dungeon is a now an open forum with respect to lifestyle events,links,or anything people from the group would like to post reguarding topics around the area.
  • New Jersey Munch Group - For those 21 and older in the NJ NY PA area to meet in a comfortable strictly social setting.
  • New York City BDSM - Information and discussion for the New York City Area BDSM community.
  • New York City BDSM submissives - The purpose of this list is fill a gap that I've experienced for some time. To date, there is no list at which submissive men and women can place their personal ads and be guaranteed to be treated with respect and dignity.
  • New York City Bondage M4M - Mailing and contact list for NYC area gay men into bondage & discipline
  • NJ BDSM - Bdsm forum for serious adults
  • NLA Austin Texas - National Leather Association: Austin chapter is "a pansexual educational, service and support organization welcoming people of all genders and orientations."
  • NLA Florida - The Florida division of the National Leather Association. Pansexual, open to ALL Leather, BDSM enthousiasts.
  • NLA Oklahoma City - NLA-OKC is a meeting ground for those interested in Leather and the Leather-lifestyle in Oklahoma, specifically Oklahoma City
  • North California Spankers - This community is for adults 18 and over that like to spank each other.
  • North California Spanking Friends - This is a site for men and women in the area of eastern North Carolina who are looking to connect and make new friendships in regards to those who like spanking and wish to get together.
  • North Lousiana BDSM - This group is meant for discussion of the BDSM and Kink lifestyles, mainly for people in North Louisiana
  • Northern California BDSM - Discussion group for people in Northern Ca. who are interested in BDSM
  • Northern California BDSM (ncbdsm.org) - An open discussion list for northern california bdsm and leather folk.
  • Northern California Leather Association of the Deaf - Leather group based in San Francisco serving deaf leather community in Northern California.
  • Northern Ireland Corporal Punishment - This site is for serious people in Ireland, preferably the north, intrested in Corporal Punishment, spanking, disipline or even activities such as nappy wearing (If you are into that sort of thing).
  • Northern Lights Dungeon Society - Adults in the Anchorage, Alaska, area who wish to meet other adults interested in BDSM.
  • Northern Mich BDSM - We focus on D/s-BDSM discussions and socialization for people in the Northern Lower Peninsula and in the UP.
  • Northern New Jersey BDSM - The purpose is to hopefully organise a BDSM community in Northern New Jersey and eventually have get togethers for discussion and other events.
  • Northwest BDSM - Mailing list for Washington State, Oregon, and British Columbia for those in alternative lifestyles.
  • Northwest Iowa BDSM - A BDSM discussion group for the Tri-State area.
  • Northwest Poly BDSM - This List is for Poly BDSM people living in the Pacific NorthWest in search of others who share an interest Poly BDSM, with a focus on the aspects Poly and Poly BDSM Lifestyles.
  • NoValleyCA BDSM - We call ourselves The Renegades. We are located inland in the Northern California region.
  • NZ Fem - Pansexual mailing list for New Zealand female Dominants, Tops and Switches.



Groups O

  • Ocean State Ds - A newly formed group in the Ocean State of Rhode Island for people interested in the D/s lifestyle.
  • Ohio Smart - Welcome to the Ohio SMART List! Ohio SMART is the Cleveland area's largest BDSM, D/s, and Fetish lifestyle organization.
  • OK Bdsm - A discussion group for all. a Munch group for those in the Mangum/Altus area.21 and older only
  • Oklahoma Kink Link - This is a weekly listing of alternative events for Oklahoma. Regional and international events are also listed.
  • Oklahoma SMBD women - This list is for women in Oklahoma interested in the leather lifestyle. B/D, S/M, tops, bottoms, lesbian, het, or bi, etc.
  • Orange County Spanking - A place to meet spanking enthusiasts in Orange County and discuss aspects of our passion for OTK
  • Ottawa BDSM Community - This list is for members of This Group, an Ottawa - Canada - BDSM-oriented mailing list, to discuss the things that don't fit into the topic requirements of the original This Group list.



Groups P

  • PA BDSM group - This new list is created for all BDSM lovers in the state of PA or nearby areas.
  • Pain bondage - Looking for a Master? Looking for a pain slave? Feel free to troll, ask questions, make suggestions.
  • Panthers leatherclub - Discussion list for the New York-Panthers Leather Club (NYPLC). This is a new organization established (in 1999) and maintained by and for men of color in the New York/New Jersey/Connecticut tri-state area, who are interested and involved in leather and leather-oriented fetish, BDSM, uniforms, and related activities.
  • PAP meeting - We are a small group of people involved in BDSM. We have a munch on the first Wednesday of each month. We are switching to a place in Horsham, PA.
  • Pensylvania BDSM - I am a 22 year old BBW Domme from PA..who is just starting out....I would like to meet people from PA
  • PEP Oklahoma BDSM - The is a mailing list for those interested in People Exchanging Power Oklahoma's activities.
  • Petweek - The Pet Week mailing list is open for all people interested in the vacation week for this kind of roleplaying in Denmark.
  • Philly BDSM - Promoting the local BDSM community in Philadelphia, Pennsylvania, USA.
  • Philly Black Doms and subs - is an electronic discussion forum designed to bring together people of color and their admirers from the Greater Philadelphia area (Southeastern Pennsylvania, South Jersey, and Delaware) who are a part of the BDSM community.
  • Philly Femsubs - Discussion group for FEMALE ONLY submissives (bottoms, switches, the confused) in the Philadelphia region and elsewhere.
  • Philly Freedom List - For discussion of various issues involved in preserving freedom of sexual expression between consenting adults in the Philadelphia area.
  • Philly Metro BDSM - PhillyMetro BDSM, a new e group/community for those who are serious about BDSM.
  • Philly Spankingcourt Roleplay - A group for adults that want to ACTIVELY engage in spanking roleplay.
  • Philly SubKulture - This list is for submissive women (especially women) and men who are seeking friends to meet for discussion and outings together as a group.
  • Philly TGs - This list is for submissive transgendered individuals who live in the Philadelphia Metro area, Delaware or South Jersey.
  • Phoenix Boys of Leather - "PHOENIX boys of LEATHER" will be a tribe of self-defining, self-identifying "leather boys," both dominant and submissive, in Phoenix, Arizona without regard to age*, gender, orientation, or appearance.
  • Poly Vegas - A Polyamory Support and Social Group in Las Vegas, Nevada. Looking to meet and help those in, or wanting to be in, Open Marriage, Bisexual, BDSM and other multi-adult relationships.
  • Pompas Rojas (Spanish) - Esta comunidad está dedicada a las personas adultas que viven en México que son amantes de las nalgadas, azotes, cinturonazos, etc o que les gustaría ser tratados como niños(as).
  • PONE - The Pony & Pet Play Organization of New England (PONE ) is dedicated to promoting educational meetings, play parties, sharing of knowledge and resources, networking, and providing demo's and workshops for those interested in human pony and pet play through out New England.
  • Pony Paradise - An adult orientated club for the discussion and picture distribution of ponygirls, ponyboys and mummification.
  • Ponyboy pictures - Forum for the lovers of nice ponyboy pictures, art and stories.
  • Ponyplay - This mailing list provides a forum for enthousiasts to discuss, debate and exchange information about pony play.
  • Ponygirl - This list is for women that want to be ponygirls and the men that will train them.
  • Power exchange - This list is for the discussion of power exchange relationships. People of any orientation are welcome.
  • Prairie Caller BDSM - Bondage, BD/SM, fetish sex, and public events in Manitoba Canada
  • Public and Outdoor Bondage - A place to share pictures and stories in English and German
  • Punish -I'm into celebrating ALL kinds of punishment between adults when one cares about the other enough.
  • Punishment and Torture - We will discuss the history of punishment and Torture.
  • Puppygirls - Puppygirls is a list for all those interested or curious about puppy or pony play.



Groups Q

  • Quality SM - Provide a wide, high-quality selection of SM books, magazines, comics, videos and audiotapes.



Groups R

  • R 'n' T Chat - A list dedicated to getting to know each other. It is basically a chat room for Rose-n-thorn Guild members and its affiliates - and others that have an interest in the BDSM, D/s, and fetish lifestyles.
  • R 'n' T EMDG - RNT_EMDG is a list dedicated to the discussion and exploration of various topics in the Adult BSDM, D/s and fetish lifestyles.
  • R 'n' T Info - A social and support group dedicated to educating adults on alternative lifestyles.
  • Real Dayton BDSM - This list represents the original Dayton area BDSm group. We were and are a social group assembled for furthering the B&D, S&m, D&s lifestyle in the Dayton OH area.
  • Real torture slavery - This list is for the hardcore only .For those into total submission and voluntary slavery. As well as the people who dominate them.
  • Real TPE - Real TPE is for people to discuss real life Master/slave relationships.
  • Rhode Island and SouthEastern Massachusettes BDSM - Our goal is to provide a safe, sane supportive, fun, and respectful environment for people to meet, learn new things, grow and discuss BDSM.
  • Rhode Island BDSM - A list for those in the Rhode Island areas that are interested in Bondage, Domination/submission, and Sadomasochism.
  • Rivercity BDSM - The Mailing List for the River City Dungeon Society; A BDSM Lifestyle group centered in Jacksonville, Florida.
  • Roissy Workshops - This list exists to provide information on the wild and devious activities of Roissy Workshops.
  • Ropo Inc - Richmond, Virginia
  • Rubberfetish - The Rubber Fetish Site
  • Rubberists - The largest 100% non-commercial community of latex rubber gummi fetish folks on the Internet.
  • Rubberlove - All those with a fetish for latex/rubber etc.



Groups S

  • Sacramento BDSM - Sacramento BDSM, BDSM, D/s, S/M, bondage
  • Sadists Rus - For the Domina, and those who love Her.
  • Sado Sevilla (Spanish)
  • Salem BDSM - A mailing list for people in and around Salem, Oregon.
  • SAmunch - A group for BDSM in South Australia
  • San Antonio Spanking Society - San Antonio Spanking Society Y: Dedicated to the "Romance of Spanking", "Spanky", "Darla" and "Alfalfa" announce a spanking group in San Antonio called "SASSY."
  • San Antonio Subs - This is an ADULT place for San Antonio submissives - switches - bottoms (of any gender) to talk about issues that relate to them.
  • San Diego BDSM - A list started to allow the exchange of personals and personal thoughs for people in or interested in the BDSM lifestyle in San Diego.
  • San Diego Spanking - Primarily a place to meet spanking enthusiasts in San Diego, California.
  • San Francisco Bay BDSM - ae - Bdsm-sfbay Dalnet channel was set up so the people in the San Francisco Bay area who are interested or practice BDSM would have a place on Dalnet to meet, talk, and get together with people of like interests.
  • San Francisco BDSM law liason - This is for members of the San Francisco Bay area to discuss issues regarding consent, abuse, and legalities of BDSM with local police departments.
  • Savannah BDSM club - List open to those over 21 who live or frequent Savannah GA and are part of the BDSM lifestyle or are interested in same.
  • Scottish Spanking - A list for Scots all over the world as well as those who live in Scotland to talk about their spanking experiences.
  • SDLLC News and info - A weekly, private mailing-list for San Diego's Leather community
  • Seattle BDSM - I formed this club to promote discussions, understanding and to create an open forum for BDSM play in Seattle and the NW.
  • Seattle Fetish Gazette - A newsletter for Seattle and the greater North West about BDSM and other sex-positive activities
  • Seattle Spanking - Come in, chat about our favorite subject, and perhaps meet someone in the Puget Sound region if that is your desire!
  • Seattle Switch Scene - The mailing list for the Seattle Switch Scene - a social/support group that will be meeting in the Seattle area to allow discussion/sharing among those who identify as SWITCH (having interests in performing from both sides of the power exchange in a BDSM perspective).
  • Seattle Tacoma BDSM - Whether DOM or sub, this can be your way to meet up with what you seek.
  • Selfbondage Russia - Russian post group for discussing questions of bondage and self-bondage.
  • Sensory Deprivation - This list is to explore the effects and turn-ons surrounding sensory deprivation, methods, and techniques associated with it.
  • Servitude Hawaii - D/s Hawaii
  • Seth's Pony Play - "Pony play", ponygirl, ponyboy.
  • Sex in Florida - Florida, sex, swinger, gangbang, singles,orgy, dominance, submissive, BDSM, personals,amateur. Adults only.
  • Sex Magick - Open discussion of Sex Magick, techniques, experiences and advice.
  • Sex Slave And Master Contracts - A meeting area for sex slaves and Masters to post the situation that they are looking for, mingle and meet and enter into a terms and conditions contract.
  • SF Gay BDSM - A list for San Francisco Bay Area gay male adults (18+) who are interested in bondage and discipline, dominance and submission, and sadomasochism, temporary and permanent consensual slavery, etc.
  • Sharav - Sharav, Israel's first BD/SM support group, is using YahooGroups to encourage commuincation between its members and supporters.
  • Single BDSM - This list if for SINGLE people that are either in or just entering the BDSM portions of their lives.
  • Single BDSM Ohio - This list if for SINGLE people that are either in or just entering the BDSM portions of their lives.
  • SirJeff's Ponygirls - For the lovers of good adult ponygirl pictures, drawings, art and stories.
  • Slave makers dungeon - Home for Doms Dommes sub-slaves to post their experiences and photo's
  • Slave Punishment - This is a list for those in the D/s (BDSM) who are interested or involved in real-life severe punishment such as, spanking, caning, whipping,extreme bondage, or whatever other real-life serious punishments our devious minds can come up with.
  • Slave training - Slave Training Discussion List
  • SM Classes - We provide high-quality educational classes in San Francisco on domination & submission and erotic pain.
  • SM Zine (Dutch) - Een discussieforum voor iedereen die met anderen van gedachten wil wisselen over BDSM en relevante onderwerpen.
  • SM Zine Partners(Dutch) - Forum voor partners van SM-ers
  • SM Zine Spirit (Dutch) - Sommige mensen ervaren dat er een nauwe verwantschap bestaat tussen hun SM ervaringen en de bijkomende trance, en hun geestelijk leven.
  • SM Zine Women Only (Dutch) - Je hebt iets met (BD)SM. Je bent een vrouw. Je bent op zoek naar zielsverwanten maar je wilt niet alleen maar over SM praten? Dan is dit het forum voor jou.
  • SMall NL (Dutch) - Dit is een lijst voor iedereen met interesse in sm-bdsm-D/s-Erotic Power Exchange (EPE).
  • SMigo (German) - Smigo ist ein Muenchner SM Stammtisch
  • SMil (Norwegian - Norsk) - Mailingliste for medlemmene i SMil og andre med interesse for dominans og underkastelse.Listen er et debattforum, åpen for diskusjon om alt som hører inn under SM.
  • SOALs - SOALS... Safety for Our Alternative LifeStyles A group for ALL Alternative Lifestyles for those who wish to be part of a peaceful and safe community. "Protect, Educate and Support"
  • SOCA Commons - This mailing list is for people interested in the BDSM scene in Southern California.
  • South Africa Power Exchange - A list for all those who are interested in, or involved in BDSM in South Africa.
  • South Africa Subbie Support - Welcome to SA subbie support, this list is for the use of submissives, both male and female from South Africa or the rest of the world.
  • South Australia n bdsm list
  • South Dakota BDSM - TA list for all those interested in the BDSM Lifestyle who live in South Dakota, this list is pretty much a howdy get to know you kinda thing for people like my self to meet others interested in the lifestyle so come on in pull up a chair and stay a while.
  • South Dakota BDSM group - This group is based In Sioux Falls, SD but we are always expanding to other regions.
  • South Florida BDSM - A list for the discussion of BDSM, D/s, S/M and all other aspects of safe and sane alternative play in the South Florida area.
  • South UK BDSM - South England fetish group, setup to meet people and organise munches in our area
  • South West Missouri BDSM - A forum for the exchange of ideas and information on BDSM for those living in SW Missouri [especially the Springfield area] and a tool for meeting others in the BDSM lifestyle.
  • South Virginia BDSM - This group is for Legal Adults (minimum 18+) interested or involved with The Safe Sane and Consensual exploration of BDSM in the Roanoke, Lynchburg, Blacksburg, and surrounding areas of Virginia.
  • Southeast BDSM - Mailing list to keep the pansexual (gay, bi, straight, transgendered) leather community informed of events and activites in the Southeast area.
  • Southeast Michigan BDSM Ds - This list is for persons living in S.E. Michigan that are interested in BDSM - D/s.
  • Southern Ds groups - We are a group for singles in the BDSM Ds SM community located in the Panhandle of Florida.
  • Southern Piedmont Advocates of Negotiated Kink - SPANK (Southern Piedmont Advocates of Negotiated Kink) is a private and pansexual D/s and BDSM support group serving the Southern Piedmont and Sandhills regions in North Carolina.
  • Southern Spankers - The Southern Spanking Society - This is a group of adults, singles and couples, that enjoy spanking in the southeastern US.
  • SOWEGA BDSM - A community group for the BDSM crowd in Southwest Georgia, Southeast Alabama and North Central Florida
  • Spank Betty - This is a pic group that posts spanking pic's, videos, stories, and programs.
  • Spank San Antonio - This is a list ONLY for adult men and women in and around San Antonio, who want to meet partners for spankings or for email, talk, and chat about spankings, either erotic or disciplinary.
  • Spanking Bondage In New England - This group is for adults in the New England area interested in adult spanking & bondage. In whatever context: BDSM, sexual foreplay, roleplaying or for adult discipline.
  • Spanking Canada - This list is for people living in Canada to meet like minded people.
  • Spanking in Edmonton - A place where spanking enthusiasts in or near Edmonton, Alberta, Canada can share their thoughts about spanking.
  • Spank South Africa - Spanking in South Africa
  • Spanking Manchester UK - A group for people living in the Manchester UK area intersted in spanking
  • Spanking Milwaukee - This list is to help people in Milwaukee Wisconsin and surrounding areas meet others who share their passion for spanking.
  • Spanking Nederland (Dutch) - Een groep voor Nederlandse spanking liefhebbers om ervaringen uit wisselen, contacten op te doen of om simpelweg met elkaar te kletsen over spanking.
  • Spanking New - Announcements for ST B.D.S.M. E-Zine
  • Spanking New York - This is a new free egroup for all adult women and men in New York City, New York State, New Jersey, and Connecticut who are interested in any aspect of spanking, whether real-life, cyber, fiction, or fantasy.
  • Spanking New Zealand - New Zealand, spanking, BDSM, corporal punishment, discipline, caning, whipping
  • Spokane Power Exchange
  • Springfield fem slaves - Seeking submissive females, aged 18 or older, wishing to be introduced to the different loving cultures in the Springfield, MISSOURI, or Branson, MO, OR SURROUNDING area.
  • Stampede Talk - Open discussions on topics of interest to The Stampede - The San Francisco Bay Area Human Animal Roleplay Society
  • Steelfet - This is the mailing list for the Steeltown - Hamilton Ontario Canada - Society, a group that regularly holds munches and other bdsm related events.
  • Sterling shadow - Dayton, Ohio's NEWEST pansexual D/s BDSM club..
  • Strictly Ds - An intelligent discussion list for those people 21 and over who are interested in or participating in Dominant/submissive relationships.
  • Sub den - A list for subs/bottoms/slaves!
  • Sub for sub - A group for subs who have been abused
  • Sub women - For women of any age who are submissive in nature, who desire to be sexually submissive to a man and would like to explore what it feels like to be a female sub.
  • Submissive Couples - This is a list for cubmissive couples and Masters, Mistresses, or couples who desire them.
  • Submissive Couples UK - This list is SPECIFICALLY designed for submissive maried couples living in the UK.
  • Submissive Memphians - This group is for submissives in or around Memphis that want to meet and get to know others in the lifestyle.
  • Subs iso Masters - The list will be an unmoderated list for subs advertising to meet Dom/mes. Dom/mes may also post ads looking for subs.
  • Subs R Us - D/s, bsdsm, personals and discussion
  • Subservient fems - This list is intended for submissive females in the BDSM scene, but is not only for submissive females.
  • SubStance Florida - North Florida submissive discussion, support and education group holding monthly meetings in conjunction with JAPE.
  • Suppositories - This is for people who enjoy the use of suppositories, enemas and their expulsions, anal exams, anal fisting, rectal temps, colon tubes and unusual enema solutions as well as any other anal device or equipment for sub/Dom medical role play and B/D role play
  • Sydney BDSM - Hi and welcome to the BDSM e-Group for Sydney Australia.
  • Sydney BDSM - An ADULTS ONLY BDSM mailing/discussion list for the Sydney, NSW, Australia BDSM community.



Groups T

  • T3WD (This Thing That We Do) - is a pansexual BDSM group based in Columbia, South Carolina. This group was formed to provide education, support, and a safe social venue for people in this area who are living or interested in learning more about the BDSM, Leather, or other alternative lifestyles.
  • T3WD Announce - announcements only mail list for T3WD.
  • TAAG - TAAG is a BDSM group in the Asheville and surrounding areas of North Carolina.
  • Tampa BDSM - This is a community for Tampa Bay area practitioners of BDSM/ or those who would like to be taught the lifestyle.
  • Tampa Tops n Bottoms - A place for Tampa's (and all of Florida's) "UNIQUE" lifestyles to meet and interact. A must for local people into BDSM.
  • Tavern Of Stone - Discussion forum for the IRC Channel, #TavernofStone for those interested in D/s, Gorean style D/s, and living the lifestyle of a Gorean online or in real life.
  • Temple Of Athena - A fetish club.
  • Temple Of Athena 2 - Fetish club in San Fransisco which holds monthly fetish dance and play parties
  • Tennessee spankers - Would you like to talk to others in Tennessee (TN) and the Southeast interested in spanking?
  • Tennessee TMU - A BDSM group of like-minded people in Southeast Tenn to meet, learn from and enjoy the lifestyle together.
  • That Other List - General BDSM discussion and frolic
  • The Best BDSM Stories - A place for Tampa's (and all of Florida's) "UNIQUE" lifestyles to meet and interact. A must for local people into BDSM.
  • The Chattanooga Exchange - We are a Chattanooga Tennessee munch group which meets monthly for dinners and demos. We welcome all kinks and sexual orientations... BD, SM, DS, CD, Hetero, Gay, Bi, etc. New and experienced people interested in being active in the lifestyle of BDSM are welcome
  • The Crystal Bridge - Used only for exchange of information and schedules for The Crystal Bridge, an eZine dedicated to the exploration of alternative lifestyles.
  • The Domain - The Domain is a group for like minded People into BDSM new or old
  • The Endorphin Society - An email list primarily for members of The Endorphin Society of Wellington, New Zealand, but also for anyone in the Wellington area with an interest in BDSM.
  • The Fetish Personals - Pansexual Personal Ads For The Fetish Lifestyle.
  • The Lighter Side of The Dark Side - Hello. This is an adult oriented discussion group for those interested in B~D~S~M.
  • The Marketplace - This email list is to discuss The Marketplace series by Laura Antoniou.
  • The Ohio Hedonistic Society - is a Cincinnati-based, support/social/educational group for those whose interests include the consensual exploration of Dominance, submission, S&M, bondage, discipline and other fetishes, regardless of gender or sexual orientation.
  • The Paradox Group - The Paradox Group is a newly formed group in the Ohio Valley area. We feel there are enough like minded people living in Kentucky, Indiana and Ohio to come together to create an atmosphere of safe and enjoyable adult play as well as support and a learning forum for those new to the BDSM scene, as well as people who have years of experience.
  • The Master's Quest - The Master's Quest is central Florida's only permanent BDSM social club and amateur theater.
  • The Paradox group - The Paradox Group is a newly formed group in the Ohio Valley area. We feel there are enough like minded people living in Kentucky, Indiana and Ohio to come together to create an atmosphere of safe and enjoyable adult play as well as support and a learning forum for those new to the BDSM scene, as well as people who have years of experience
  • The Rose Garden - The Rose Garden Discussion Group has members all over the Southwest (San Francisco, Daly City, Monterey, Chico, Sacramento, Fresno, Bakersfield, San Diego, Los Angeles, Long Beach, Ventura, Orange County, Santa Barbara, Redlands, San Bernardino, Riverside, Moreno Valley, Hemet, Ontario, Rancho Cucamonga, Norco, Corona, Fontana, Victorville, Barstow, Palmdale, Lancaster, Orange, Las Vegas, Reno, Bullhead City, Flagstaff, Phoenix, Tucson, Albuquerque and many, many points in between these different cities).
  • The School for Austin Area Dominants' Education - (or SAADE) is a group of Austin area Dominants who are primarily interested in becoming more educated about BDSM matters and in socializing with each other.
  • The Society New England - This is the official e-list for The Society, a BDSM group with meetings in CT and MA
  • The-Submissive-Soul - Membership Restricted to Submissive men and women only
  • This Group - A forum for people interested in BDSM in the Ottawa, Ontario, Canada area
  • This Old Dungeon - After building 7 dungeon spaces in different homes I have owned (or friends of mine), I figured a place to talk about BDSM Furniture would be helpful.
  • Tied - Local BDSM Lifestyle Group for Hampton Roads Virginia. Leatherman, gay, bi, Dominance, submission, all fetishes welcome.
  • TIED Contributors - TIED Contributors is intended for contributors to the TIED Virginia BDSM Support Group.
  • TNG Central Texas - TNG holds bi-monthly meetings on either the first Friday or first Saturday of even numbered months.
  • Top to Bottom - Top to bottom of Corpus Christi, Texas (Or TbCC) is a social, educational, discussion and support group for anyone over 21.
  • Toppers - A Gathering place for Tops (Dom/mes) to exchange thoughts, ideas, and concerns. Over 21 only please.
  • Toronto Jewish Kinksters - This is a site set up for Jewish people in Toronto, Canada interested in spanking and other kinky delights.
  • Toronto Leather Grrlz - A discussion group/email list, based in Toronto, Ontario, Canada. Geared towards women who pracice BDSM.
  • Toronto Pets - A social group for adults in the Toronto area that are interested in animal roleplay.
  • Toronto Spank - Toronto and surrounding area subs and doms can come to talk of their fantasies and desires.
  • Torture torture - Women in extreme torture and pain
  • TPE NorthWest - It is for those with D/s, BDSM and TPE interest living in {or planning to move to} the Northwestern United States, so that they may get aquainted and get to know each other.
  • TPE Personals - The primary purpose of this list is to help folks find what they are looking for, if that is a committed, real life Total Power Exchange (TPE) relationship.
  • TPEvolutions - This is a list for the discussion of committed power relationships and relevant issues, events, and practices.
  • Training And Correction - This is a group to discuss and exchange techniques to train and correct your female slave(s)
  • TRG Munch in Riverside, California - The Rose Garden Munch is a casual BDSM get together (ie lunch) usually held the fourth Sunday of every month in Riverside, California.
  • Triskeli - This list is intended to be an informational resource for the Pacific Northwest Kink Community.



Groups U

  • UK Cheshire spanking - Cheshire Spanking will hopefully be a safe haven for Spankers and spankees alike in the Cheshire area
  • UK F/m Spanking - This is a list for women and men who are interested in F/M spankings.
  • UK Gay Spank - This is a list for UK Gay men who enjoy spanking or being spanked by other UK Gay Men
  • UK Gay Spankers - A group for all gay, bisexual and straight men into man to man spanking, cbt, bondage, tt and body inspections.
  • UK Humiliation - For UK residents interested in the use of humiliation/disicipline for erotic purposes
  • UK Spanking - This is a mailing list for women who live in England and are seeking a man to enjoy spanking games with.
  • UK US Dom sub - A place for all those interested in the BDSM lifestyle to meet
  • Upstate New York discipline - This list is to place personals.



Groups V

  • Valley Munch - A forum for those interested in BDSM, in the Shenandoah Valley of Virginia.
  • Venezolanas pies bellos (Spanish) - La lista de las venezolanas de pies bellos y de sus admiradores
  • Vi Johnson - To chat about Vi Johnson's writing, and interact with her directly as schedules permit.
  • Vilano Intimate Power Exchange Region - VIPER (Vilano Intimate Power Exchange Region), a pansexual BDSM support group, near St. Augustine, Florida.
  • Virginia BDSM - Although any adult is welcome, this list will focus of the consensual exchange of power between adults and will cover such topics as BDSM, D/s, bondage, discipline, fetishes, and pansexuality.
  • Virginia Spank - Open to all interested in spanking, especially in Virginia.
  • Announcement list for Violate - Announcement and info list for Scot's fetish/BDSM club and dungeon.



Groups W

  • Wa BDSM - If you live in Washington state and are interested in this lifestyle then this is the place for you.
  • BDSM Waco - This list serves as a communication network for members of Whips And Chains Of Texas (WACOTX).
  • Welcome home USA - Vi Johnson, a noted speaker and leather activist, seeks to create a "home" for the retiring pansexual/leather community in a warm accepting environment that will nurture an aging population with an alternative lifestyle.
  • West Coast Power Exchange - We are a REAL TIME group of like-minded individuals, 21 years of age and older, living in and around the Santa Barbara, San Luis Obispo and Ventura Counties.
  • West Virginia Power Exchange - This is a new group for the real life discussion of BDSM and all practices within that lifestyle. We are intending on forming a group for a munch/social in the State of WV.
  • Westchester BDSM - A Westchester / Rockland.Souther CT based BDSM group, revolving around S&M, D/s, bondage, submission, and domination.
  • Western Kentucky Domination and submission - WKyDs is an online pansexual BDSM, D/s, fetish support and discussion group for persons in the western Kentucky/Paducah areas.
  • Western North Carolina BDSM - We post events occurring in the Asheville NC area when we are aware of them.
  • Wings of Fire - Wings of Fire is an online community for those in the BDSM lifestyle dedicated to overcoming and surviving all forms of abuse, from D/s abuse to domestic violence to childhood abuse and everything in between.
  • Wisconsin BDSM Couples - This group was created to join estblished couples in the Wisconsin area who share like interest in the practice of domination and submission and would like to get together but not necessarily swing with other couples but to talk and share ideas with.
  • Wisconsin BDSM Discussion - This list is for Wisconsin residence who would like to join in and talk about BDSM with folks who share the same interest.
  • Wisconsin Dom sub - An open {Moderated} forum for those in, or interested in, the Wisconsin area D/s + BDSM community.
  • Wisconsin spanking - Do you want to talk with and meet other spanking enthusiasts in Wisconsin? If so, this is the place for you. Anyone into spanking or BDSM is welcome to join.
  • Wisconsin subs - This list was created for ALL submissives, male or female, into BDSM, to get to know one another, support and share ideas.
  • Women Having A Consensual Kink - WHACK is based in Seattle, but all women having an interest in polite and thoughtful discussion are invited to join.
  • Whips and Chains of Arkansas - Whips and Chains of Arkansas is a BDSM Discussion group located in Northwest Arkansas.



Groups X - Z

  • Xanadu - XANADU is an "OVER 21" family created for persons involved in the alternative lifestyle of BDSM/Ds.
  • YIFF - A list for yiffy furs out there. On Furry Muck, yiffnet, news lists, any fur fans are welcome.
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