Partners of abuse survivors often face some very difficult situations of their own. It can be very painful to watch someone you love suffer and not have any idea what to say or do.

The single most important thing to remember is that survivors need to heal at our own pace ... And that pace will almost certainly differ from person to person.

The following are links, articles and/or suggestions from various counselors and survivors themselves on how to best show your love and support. And, from the bottom of our hearts ... Thank You.

• Healing from Rape and Abuse   A personal site created by a heterosexual survivor. She offers some very valuable tips.

• UIUC Counseling Center   A Guide For Friends, Family, And Partners

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